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--------------------- Bongi & Collin wrote "Honesty and transparency, build a strong and healthy marriage. These are very important to remember all the time. No marriage can survive without these." Honesty and transparency are key things in a relationship. We have to be honest and transparent. -------------------- When we are honest and transparent our partners will find it easy for them to be open also. They would find it easy to tell you about their faults and temptations,  they would be able to to tell you about anything. It is through that anything they tell you that you trust them and build your relationship on principles of honesty and transparency because not only has it become something you would love to do but it has become your lifestyle. Without honesty and transparency then we fail in our relationship because that would suggest that we are hiding things, most possibly seeing someone else. In this day and time we need to love our spouse's, respect them...

"Remember that marriage is possible only because the two of you saw enough in each other to agree to become one and this promise should never be betrayed. " -Bongi & Collin Being open in a relationship is the most tough thing that one can ever do. As men we always make excuses so that women won't see that we cannot be open fully to them, we make excuses like 'I don't want to tell her because she will leave me, or it will hurt her'. Relationships are tough for most people simply because when they think about being open to their spouse's or the person they are dating at that time they feel like they won't be free to do what they want, they will feel trapped in their relationships. I have dated many people in life and I tell you relationships are not tough, they are simple because the more open on is to their partner, the more they grow in understanding and knowing each other's strengths and weaknesses or likes and dislikes. One guy I know on...

-------------------- What is a relationship without intimacy and romance? Take a second to think about your relationship and what you have went through with that man or woman, do not think your better than him/her but think about the whole relationship. NOW YOU CAN ANSWER! -------------------- Remember when we were kids, we would play house. There would be the father and mother also kids, boyfriend and girlfriend,  there wouldn't be any romantic kiss because you would be disgusted by it, a relationship without intimacy and romance is a total bore because there is nothing new to expect from your partner. A relationship without these two elements is just two people playing house. INTIMACY:- Bondi & Collin contend "Not only do people shy away from talking about sex, but also there are married couples who have never discussed their sex life with each other...No one is a sex expect, because sexual fulfilment varies from individual to individual,  oversimplifying it, is w...

I have been dating my girlfriend for 1 year and 10 months (basically 1 & a half), before I met her I always thought that relationships do not have to have love but a mutual understanding, why we are dating. Since I got saved I used to think that relationships are all about sex, partying and all maliciousness but I met a lady who started challenging me to grow and become a guy who knows what he want and know where he is going. I have learned through her that 'love is a c hoice' I went out with a couple of friends of mine to Samrand where my best friend lives and we were talking about our experiences as gents, how much we are struggling and how controlling women are but I was sitting there and I had nothing to say because my girlfriend and I do not doubt each other. A few days ago my sister in the Lord asked me what I think about love and I said 'love is a choice'. I said that because last year while I was away my girlfriend cheated on me with some guy who was bell...

The greatest mistake that people make is believing that we can live without God.  David says 'I was young and now I am old but never have I seen the righteous forsaken' we are a generation of cash, we focus on what we have on the outside that who we are and who we should have inside. Gods intention is not to harm us but to give us life and life in abundance. Gods intention is not to judge us or condemn us. Gods intention is to set us free from who we think we are:- 1. Broken 2. Prostitute 3. Failure, 4. Addict, 5. Shy or ashamed. 6. Fat, 7. Too thin, 8. Unrecognized. I have come across people who actually believe that the would be better if they had no God to live for simply because they want to run taverns and perform all malicious things and simply because of what people defined them to be.Some say that they do not need God. Some that I know think that God is weak because they think he can't save them. In my diary this morning I want to say, in my life I hav...

"I wanted to do Illmatic to leave my legacy in many forms as something that was proof that I was here #TimeIsIllmatic" -Nas In my diary this morning I want to show you someone who build his kingdom from nothing and he is leaving it as his legacy, he is crowned as one of the best rappers In this generation, #TimeisIllmatic is on tour running around and making people go crazy. 20 albums of fun, laughter, joy, dancing, rapping and jumping over beats Nas remains a legend. Everyone of us is here to do what he does best, might be selling on the streets, fixing computers, writing,  plumbing or anything we all have our talents and it is through our talents that we are able to make it in life. We do not get well know for fun but because someone noticed that we love what we are doing, it encouraged them and motivated them to write something or enhance our careers/kimgdoms.  Bebe winans sings a song and proclaims 'born for this, destined for greatness, I was prepared for this.....

This morning my whole attention goes to the award winning, wonderful,  gangster,  mixtaping,  tweeking,  and rapperlacious lady Onika Tanya Mara. She was born on December 8 1982 at saint James, Trinidad amd Tobago and raised in Jamaica, Queen, New York. She is well known internationally by her stage name Nicky Minaj. She is indeed an American rapper, song writer and actress. Her fame started by releasing three mixtapes from 2007 - 2009, and from there she signed a recording contract with Young Money Entertainment in 2009. We know her by her wonderful work on Pink Friday (2010), that killed at the USA on the billboard 200 and she kept on charting to the billboards 100. We also know her famous Studio album Pink Friday Roman reloaded which dropped 2012 and it famous song 'starships' made a remarkable out break on billboard 100 peaked at number five, and lastly the pink print is expected to drop on the 24 of Novemeber 2014. Nicki Minaj had a great career let us remembe...

In my diary this morning I want to write about a story that touched my heart but in this story we find a man who changed people's thinking about people that live on the streets. We need to be real with ourselves, we never take our time to talk to people living on the streets and ask them their story, we do not think it is that important, we never look beyond the weed they are smoking, the glue they are taking in their bodies because that all that we see. I look at Vincent Bones from idols season 10, I see our failures as Christians, as Muslims, and all religions, I see our failure as companies and school. We have failed ourselves. Our generation has become a generation that never cares about anything anymore, we have become people that do not value relationships, we have become a generation that has entertained the robotic life that we were taught to live by the westerners, we find it easy to walk past a person who is needy because we're to busy to help. We always assume th...

Kgothatso Sethole aka 'Kacey' was hosting a concert in Pretoria, '#so beautiful' was the theme. The theme was inspired by the first song he sang while walking in, 'how beautiful, you're love for me'. Pretoria enjoyed the presence of God at Kacey's concert. Mc was Sifiso Sithole who is an event co-coordinator, he recently hosted a youth event know as the CA Awards in Pretoria, Mamelodi. He worked with artists like Bongi and Collin, Kacey and will be managing an up and coming model Zodwa Mhlanga. Kacey's concert made Pretoria dance it's way in heaven tonight. He featured Njabulo the singer who sings with 'We Worship', which are known by their awesome song 'malibongwe Igamma lakho'. Njabulo made a killer performance with a song 'nomathemba'.  He told a story that spoke to the hearts of the people. Some were shouting 'you are going to make me cry'. After he sang two songs he closed with phathapatha, he was dancing a...

"Born in Japan, bred in South Africa. She’s fun, sassy and down-to-earth. One of the beautiful faces of vuzu with a keen sense of fashion; Lalla is no stranger to the entertainment industry." Nono Cele Lalla was born in Hiratsuka, Kanagawa-Ken, Japan. She moved to Australia and then to South Africa at an early age. She started her primary schooling at Fairways Primary. The Hiratsuka lady has grown in her career, which is an actress, a model, a television presenter and a voice artist best known for hosting the Vuzu shows Masters of Rhythm and V-Entertainment. Miss Legit has made her up in my diary this morning. She is an inspiration to many South African women. She has elevated in her career. Not to say that there were no challenges but the beautiful Lalla has become more stronger than she is beautiful. Many only see the looks but they never focus on how humble, loving and strong she is. In my diary this morning I want to encourage all the women in South Africa w...

Let's face it there is only one Phat Joe who puts the Phat in the Joe. #Laughing I know it doesn't make sense, but do you feel me? I never met this man but he drives me crazy and in my diary this morning I want to say I admire him a lot. I have learned that sometimes we place ourselves in the deep end, we place ourselves in the pit, where we know that we cannot survive but at the end of the day we are able to make it. Well, Well Phat Joe placed himself there and well, he survived. Many know Phat Joe as a Radio Dj, Presenter and others say he is a Come dian ,  what many of his thousand followers do not know is that he might be a Sangoma (traditional healer). According to his recent labour case that happened last year, he apparently prophesied that President Zuma will get rapped, at least I have my sources name, L oyiso Sidimba. I find it hilarious that he would say that most especially about our president. Just last night my mother and I were talking about how we South Afri...

In my diary this morning at 2:45 am I was stunned when I came across aka's tweet that made me think to myself, is fame all there is for aka? Or is he typically arrogant and ignorant?  And at that same time people are so hungry for him that they become gullible when it comes to him. "I appreciate the love y'all. It's nothing new though ... This is how it is ALL DAY. EVERY DAY. Just thought I would give u a sneak peak." Aka Wow! I really think his really got you! There are people who love him So much that they would follow him to death, people that would see his arrogance and ignorance as an attribute of deity in the kingdom of the hip hop prince, but I think,  why dint you just say I appreciate the love! But hey if thats how you roll up your swag then do it your way. He is considered a show stopper by many, a crazy good looking rapper by the girls but the media sees a hungry man who would do anything to get more followers, but he sees himself as a man who eats ...

Men are haunted by the vastness of eternity. And so we ask ourselves: will our actions echo across the centuries? Will strangers hear our names long after we are gone, and wonder who we were, how bravely we fought, how fiercely we loved? We are all at war and the attack is not from the other country or people but we are at war with ourselves. One of my dreams as I was growing up was centered around the idea of being famous, we all have dreams and we all want to be remembered. We are at war with ourselves because we Want to be remembered. In our generation we do not just do things for fun or because I want to help other people, we do things so that long when we are gone we would be remembered as the one who published countless number of books, helped the needy, or fought for black/white people. In the midst of all that greed and hunger comes a man known as Sibusiso Leope, Born May 28, 1977 (age 37)  'Dj Sbu' some of his well known associate's Brown Dash, DJ Cleo, Iz...

In my diary tonight or morning how ever you see it, there is a 'man rapper' in town, I call him 'man rapper' because when it comes to performances he does deliver and there is nothing many weak rappers can do about it. None other than the talk of the Sunday night big brother performances, Cassper Nyovest. Refiloe Maele Phoolo AKA Cassper Nyovest born in 1990 December 16, murdered the big brother performance with hit that never gets old 'Doc Shebeleza'. Known to be the most perfect artist who never gets tired of pumping the stage, the singer came to rescue us at the big brother show yesterday by making a killer performance. I was watching the artists that got on stage to sing, they would try to much to make the crowed go wild, the other one tried to stand on one hand, while the other one came with his friends who sang three sentences, which are '123, are you ready and come on', I am not sure if they qualify to be called a sentence but ok. Cassper nyo...

Who can wear her shoes? Who can walk in her shoes? And who can put the D in drama like her, because rama won't just cut it. None other than the princess of crazy-licious lady's, Denise zimba! I am a young writer and I completed a book 'his will your're way', and now I am working on 'the punch of life', '24 short stories' and 'relationship's according to man' and after the close attention that I have paid to the media while doing my research I have come across a certain lady who struck me. Denise Zimba the crazy-licious lady, whether she likes it or not she is a diva and she is so lovable. I would sit and watch vuzu, watching all the Lala's and the guys that are totally depressing me. I would just bare the pain just to see Denise zimba. Oh gosh, I found her to amazing to ignore, my love for her young soul and joyful character makes me enjoy television. She is the real deal and she should be a constant reminder to all the presenters...

I am so haunted by the idea of Gods kingdom coming to us. I am liking the idea of God establishing his kingdom among us. I grew up with this idea that when we die we either go to heaven or hell and that is it. My Argument is, what if there is more? We always say that we will rise again to life. We always say Jesus will reign here on earth, the law will come from mount Zion, the Holy city Jerusalem will be restored and made whole, is that it? I believe that God will come and snatch us and we will be with him in the sky, I believe that in due time we will rise to life like Jesus rose to life. I believe that when Jesus Said 'thy kingdom come' he ment may Gods kingdom be established here on earth. In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth, and he created things in the earth and he then made a man, he would walk with and be with and they would enjoy each others company's.  God made us to be able to live for all eternity, our flesh may die but that is because of o...

Broken dreams make us remember that life is tough. In many cities like Johannesburg there lie broken dreams broken, by broken dreams I mean those business plans that you draw up but they never became a success. Broken dream are found everywhere and everywhere you go, you will find someone broken and can't be fixed because they tried and failed.                           ------------------ In that pain of Unrealized and unnoticed and broken dreams there is a place called Mamelodi. A place of life changing possibilities. Mamelodi has become the heart of Gauteng, where people can go to find joy and happiness but most of all education. No one can ever top our class, simply because we keep elevating in success. Broken dreams have become a stepping stone to the success of our township. Are we saying we are unbeatable and we over power every community? No! We just m...