Relationship (<Openess-with-each-other>) Feat Bongi & Collin

"Remember that marriage is possible only because the two of you saw enough in each other to agree to become one and this promise should never be betrayed. "
-Bongi & Collin

Being open in a relationship is the most tough thing that one can ever do. As men we always make excuses so that women won't see that we cannot be open fully to them, we make excuses like 'I don't want to tell her because she will leave me, or it will hurt her'.

Relationships are tough for most people simply because when they think about being open to their spouse's or the person they are dating at that time they feel like they won't be free to do what they want, they will feel trapped in their relationships.

I have dated many people in life and I tell you relationships are not tough, they are simple because the more open on is to their partner, the more they grow in understanding and knowing each other's strengths and weaknesses or likes and dislikes.

One guy I know once told me that when he got married he lived with his wife in a one room shack and it was the best time of his life because they knew each other more and besides the was nowhere to hide, when you wash your partner is in the same room, you love, laugh and live together.

As men and women, we need to be able to let go of our insecurities and our shame and fears and be open to our partners. Being open helps your partner to be open minded when it comes to certain stuff In your lives.

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How open is your partner?

Do you trust that he/she is honest in his/her openness?

Are you open?

Are you honest with your openess?

Take time to answer those question because they will help you in your relationship.

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Bongi & Collin say "Oneness requires that the are no barriers between the two of you. It requires that you grow to a level where you can be spiritually,  emotional and physically naked with each other without fear of judgment or rejection. In order for you to be vulnerable with your partner,  you would need to know that it is saga to do so and it will be safe to do so when there are no negative repercussions such as rejection or judgment"

They continue

"Let him or her know your fears and your weaknesses, he or she should and will protect you when and if they know."

In my diary this morning I want to urge you, be open to your partner because it is through openness that you become one, and it is in that stage that you're love for each other will grow, and mature.

Relationships are not meant to make you feel like your partner knows too much about you, or make tour feel uncomfortable but they are meant to challenge you to grow, spiritually,  emotionally,  and physically.

BE OPEN, AND LIVE OPENLY.

I am William Seitshiro and this is my diary.

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