Relationship (<love is a choice>) feat Bongi & Collin

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I have been dating my girlfriend for 1 year and 10 months (basically 1 & a half), before I met her I always thought that relationships do not have to have love but a mutual understanding, why we are dating. Since I got saved I used to think that relationships are all about sex, partying and all maliciousness but I met a lady who started challenging me to grow and become a guy who knows what he want and know where he is going.

I have learned through her that 'love is a choice' I went out with a couple of friends of mine to Samrand where my best friend lives and we were talking about our experiences as gents, how much we are struggling and how controlling women are but I was sitting there and I had nothing to say because my girlfriend and I do not doubt each other.

A few days ago my sister in the Lord asked me what I think about love and I said 'love is a choice'. I said that because last year while I was away my girlfriend cheated on me with some guy who was bellow my class and status, she came clean and we decided to separate on December. For three months we separated, she saw me at church and I was getting counseling. That evening she started calling me. We spoke and and I forgave her, after two months she tells me she had sex with that guy. Broken hearted as I were I forgave her because I choose to love her and forgive her.

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In all that mess, I made it clear that if she does one mistake, I am going to move on without any regrets

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"The only kind of love which God teaches us to Havre for each other is unconditional. Unconditional love is the only love which forgives, heals, builds, comforts, protects and teaches. We all may understand love differently based on our backgrounds and measure the love by what we get out of the marriage;  however, love can never be measured. Unconditional love is the greatest gift That you Will ever give to your spouse. Everyone is capable of showing such a deep love to their spouse; it is possible through God and the purity of thr heart. Oneness is anchored by unconditional love" Bondi & Collin

In my diary this morning I want to encourage you to keep on loving, Bongi & Collin have foundationed their relationship on unconditional love, that does not mean they don't go through situations, what it means is that they will give their relationship a fighting chance.

Unconditional love heals, forgives, and builds.

Never stop loving because love is a choice.

I am William Seitshiro and this is my diary.

Facebook page: William 'Lehlohonolo' Seitshiro ///'a writers pan & a pastor's bible'\\\

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