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--------------------- Bongi & Collin wrote "Honesty and transparency, build a strong and healthy marriage. These are very important to remember all the time. No marriage can survive without these." Honesty and transparency are key things in a relationship. We have to be honest and transparent. -------------------- When we are honest and transparent our partners will find it easy for them to be open also. They would find it easy to tell you about their faults and temptations,  they would be able to to tell you about anything. It is through that anything they tell you that you trust them and build your relationship on principles of honesty and transparency because not only has it become something you would love to do but it has become your lifestyle. Without honesty and transparency then we fail in our relationship because that would suggest that we are hiding things, most possibly seeing someone else. In this day and time we need to love our spouse's, respect them...

"Remember that marriage is possible only because the two of you saw enough in each other to agree to become one and this promise should never be betrayed. " -Bongi & Collin Being open in a relationship is the most tough thing that one can ever do. As men we always make excuses so that women won't see that we cannot be open fully to them, we make excuses like 'I don't want to tell her because she will leave me, or it will hurt her'. Relationships are tough for most people simply because when they think about being open to their spouse's or the person they are dating at that time they feel like they won't be free to do what they want, they will feel trapped in their relationships. I have dated many people in life and I tell you relationships are not tough, they are simple because the more open on is to their partner, the more they grow in understanding and knowing each other's strengths and weaknesses or likes and dislikes. One guy I know on...

-------------------- What is a relationship without intimacy and romance? Take a second to think about your relationship and what you have went through with that man or woman, do not think your better than him/her but think about the whole relationship. NOW YOU CAN ANSWER! -------------------- Remember when we were kids, we would play house. There would be the father and mother also kids, boyfriend and girlfriend,  there wouldn't be any romantic kiss because you would be disgusted by it, a relationship without intimacy and romance is a total bore because there is nothing new to expect from your partner. A relationship without these two elements is just two people playing house. INTIMACY:- Bondi & Collin contend "Not only do people shy away from talking about sex, but also there are married couples who have never discussed their sex life with each other...No one is a sex expect, because sexual fulfilment varies from individual to individual,  oversimplifying it, is w...

I have been dating my girlfriend for 1 year and 10 months (basically 1 & a half), before I met her I always thought that relationships do not have to have love but a mutual understanding, why we are dating. Since I got saved I used to think that relationships are all about sex, partying and all maliciousness but I met a lady who started challenging me to grow and become a guy who knows what he want and know where he is going. I have learned through her that 'love is a c hoice' I went out with a couple of friends of mine to Samrand where my best friend lives and we were talking about our experiences as gents, how much we are struggling and how controlling women are but I was sitting there and I had nothing to say because my girlfriend and I do not doubt each other. A few days ago my sister in the Lord asked me what I think about love and I said 'love is a choice'. I said that because last year while I was away my girlfriend cheated on me with some guy who was bell...

The greatest mistake that people make is believing that we can live without God.  David says 'I was young and now I am old but never have I seen the righteous forsaken' we are a generation of cash, we focus on what we have on the outside that who we are and who we should have inside. Gods intention is not to harm us but to give us life and life in abundance. Gods intention is not to judge us or condemn us. Gods intention is to set us free from who we think we are:- 1. Broken 2. Prostitute 3. Failure, 4. Addict, 5. Shy or ashamed. 6. Fat, 7. Too thin, 8. Unrecognized. I have come across people who actually believe that the would be better if they had no God to live for simply because they want to run taverns and perform all malicious things and simply because of what people defined them to be.Some say that they do not need God. Some that I know think that God is weak because they think he can't save them. In my diary this morning I want to say, in my life I hav...

"I wanted to do Illmatic to leave my legacy in many forms as something that was proof that I was here #TimeIsIllmatic" -Nas In my diary this morning I want to show you someone who build his kingdom from nothing and he is leaving it as his legacy, he is crowned as one of the best rappers In this generation, #TimeisIllmatic is on tour running around and making people go crazy. 20 albums of fun, laughter, joy, dancing, rapping and jumping over beats Nas remains a legend. Everyone of us is here to do what he does best, might be selling on the streets, fixing computers, writing,  plumbing or anything we all have our talents and it is through our talents that we are able to make it in life. We do not get well know for fun but because someone noticed that we love what we are doing, it encouraged them and motivated them to write something or enhance our careers/kimgdoms.  Bebe winans sings a song and proclaims 'born for this, destined for greatness, I was prepared for this.....

This morning my whole attention goes to the award winning, wonderful,  gangster,  mixtaping,  tweeking,  and rapperlacious lady Onika Tanya Mara. She was born on December 8 1982 at saint James, Trinidad amd Tobago and raised in Jamaica, Queen, New York. She is well known internationally by her stage name Nicky Minaj. She is indeed an American rapper, song writer and actress. Her fame started by releasing three mixtapes from 2007 - 2009, and from there she signed a recording contract with Young Money Entertainment in 2009. We know her by her wonderful work on Pink Friday (2010), that killed at the USA on the billboard 200 and she kept on charting to the billboards 100. We also know her famous Studio album Pink Friday Roman reloaded which dropped 2012 and it famous song 'starships' made a remarkable out break on billboard 100 peaked at number five, and lastly the pink print is expected to drop on the 24 of Novemeber 2014. Nicki Minaj had a great career let us remembe...