RHYTHM

I always ask myself, how can one mend a broken heart. There are many reasons that one can do that can literally break (into pieces) someones heart. We always get the whole idea wrong though, we always assume that only women go through heart break, Yet men also go through heart break. Yet, who does what or who goes through what is not the issue at hand, the issue at hand is centered on the thought that suggests how can one heal or mend the heart that was broken by a previous lover or how can one heal the heart of the person he wants to go back to. I have a friend called James. He was dating a beautiful lady, "I think and i feel that she is the one and i know God gave her to me and i to her", so he would say. He loved the lady so dearly that he would give his life for her. After a few years of loving and respect, she went to school and met another guy. At that time James was in the USA. He started hearing rumors from people that his girlfriend is dating another guy and some who...

"Pain is the range of unpleasant sensation produced by illness or harmful physical contact, hurt suffering, discomfort, distress, soreness, ache, aching, pang, spasm, cramp... Longing is a feeling of intense desire... Luscious is richly sweet in taste or smell, over rich" -Sara Tulloch I had a conversation with a friend of mine just yesterday. I told him, "I don't know if I am being stupid, emotional, immature or what, but I am looking for love that is pure, a love that God approves of, a love that will make everything happen, a love that will make my career and my girlfriends or wife's career to match or connect like it's meant to be, a love that will not make me feel like I am working to hard to make sure that everything goes well", he said "stop looking". Love in this generation is hard to find, I have noticed that when the bible says love you're wife and she will submit does not work in our generation simply because love is not found. T...

I always say that making a selfish decision is not the worst thing that can ever happen. Sometimes making a selfish decisions does not necessarily mean that you should divorce or let go of your man or woman, but making a selfish decision goes beyond that idea of quiting because you are tired of all the rubish he or she took you through. Making a selfish decision is also about finding your ex and forgiving him or her for hurting you and letting go of all the pain you had. Making a selfish decision is not a bad idea, but it is an idea that works. A lady friend of mine sent me a massage and told me that she made a selfish decision also. She spoke to her ex who hurt her badly. She couldn't let go of the pain. Years latter she decided to talk to him about what he did to her not to condemn but to set herself free, she wrote about finding a revelation on forgiveness and decided to practice it. Lady Anonymous: Yesterday I got a splendid revelation regarding forgiveness. So I have set my...

I have an enlightenment filled with wisdom, that love shows a correct way for a person to choose. In that path lies wisdom, In  that path lies knowledge, and In  that path lies maturity. I have learned that without love then what we do for people is pointless. Love rules over all things. Today I write to encourage African people to love one another,  stop the hating, killing and fighting instead they should love. Love is the only force capable of transforming an enemy into friend. Martin Luther King, Jr. Love motivates people to help and care for one another. We got used to fighting and hatig each other as African people that we overlook the fact that in this world if we do not stand with each other then we fail to succeed.  Africans are strong Africans are wise and Africans survive all trials. We are seen people who kill each other and hate each other, but my encouragement to you as people is love your African brothers and sisters. Darkness cannot drive out dar...

I see it, i feel it, i need it, i desire it, yet that is not enough. Love is all that i desire in this world. Life is useless without love. We always speak about peace but how can we find peace if we cannot find love. love has always been considered subject to definition. People define love according to what they know and how they feel, but love is simply a step to all the peace, patience, endurance, care, and etc that we need in the world.  I have been single for 3 weeks and since then i started desiring love, not love as in relationships but love as in God uniting a woman and i in marriage and having fun as we go through trials, the kind of love that will help me grow in my career and love the person i am with not because of the sex but because we are content. Truly speaking it is hard being single while my friends are getting married and they are busy loving on their wives and future wives. I sometimes feel like waiting for that special someone but my problem is the fact that i ...