SELFISH DECISION

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I always say that making a selfish decision is not the worst thing that can ever happen. Sometimes making a selfish decisions does not necessarily mean that you should divorce or let go of your man or woman, but making a selfish decision goes beyond that idea of quiting because you are tired of all the rubish he or she took you through. Making a selfish decision is also about finding your ex and forgiving him or her for hurting you and letting go of all the pain you had. Making a selfish decision is not a bad idea, but it is an idea that works.

A lady friend of mine sent me a massage and told me that she made a selfish decision also. She spoke to her ex who hurt her badly. She couldn't let go of the pain. Years latter she decided to talk to him about what he did to her not to condemn but to set herself free, she wrote about finding a revelation on forgiveness and decided to practice it.

Lady Anonymous:

Yesterday I got a splendid revelation regarding forgiveness. So I have set myself free of past hurts and wrongs.

Why? Firstly cause u're living an amazing life in total oblivion to the past. I want that for myself. I don't wanna ruin my relationships because of what u did.

Secondly, it aint good for my relationship neNkosi. No. . . I do not wanna be ur best friend, I am simply freeing myself cause its not worth it. Have a splendid life and goodbye.

Guy Anonymous:

I'm sorry please please forgive me please I am aware I was wrong but can u pardon my wrong because now I have grown and I forgot about what I did.

Then I thought I was doing what every guy was doing. Cant we meet.

Lady Anonymous:

It's cool mfwethu, really it is.

Guy Anonymous:

Cant we meet somewhere for drinks and have a chat.

Lady Anonymous:

Oh and i am deleting u ne. Not cause I "hate" u or anything but we aren't friends.

Guy Anonymous:

Oh ok its cool. I hope all will go right with you.

Selfish decisions are not bad and they do work. Letting go is not a bad idea but it helps a person to live a life free from hurt, pain, worry, anxiety and etc because all the time she tried living her life she would think about what the other guy did.

Friends I encourage you, let go (make a selfish decision) and live your life. The only way you can love a peaceful life is through making that decision regarding relationships and not settling for less than what you want.

I am William ' Hlogi ' Seitshiro and these are my words.

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