MATTERS OF THE HEART

I always ask myself, how can one mend a broken heart. There are many reasons that one can do that can literally break (into pieces) someones heart. We always get the whole idea wrong though, we always assume that only women go through heart break, Yet men also go through heart break. Yet, who does what or who goes through what is not the issue at hand, the issue at hand is centered on the thought that suggests how can one heal or mend the heart that was broken by a previous lover or how can one heal the heart of the person he wants to go back to.

I have a friend called James. He was dating a beautiful lady, "I think and i feel that she is the one and i know God gave her to me and i to her", so he would say. He loved the lady so dearly that he would give his life for her. After a few years of loving and respect, she went to school and met another guy. At that time James was in the USA. He started hearing rumors from people that his girlfriend is dating another guy and some who worked with the guy who dated James's girlfriend were saying he was boasting about how he has sex with her. She then went to James (by texting left him). James went through hospital door to door because it affected his life, psychologically and health wise. His life witnessed a dramatic change which he had no control over. Now its back to being single, back to dealing with his health because he had heart problems, seeing a psychologist, facing the world alone and overwhelmed with stress. His heart needed to be mended.

He them met another lady. He went through a dramatic change but that does not mean that he was healed, he went through hospitals but that does not mean that he is well. He had to get healing of the heart so that he may move on. When he met this new lady they had to go and start a new life without including the good things that they had in the past, yet they had to share what they went through what their plans are for the future. It was over time that his heart was mended.

We all go through that mess in our lives, a mess that has to do with the matters of the heart. matters of the heart might make you give up on love, sometimes they can cause you to even kill yourself not our of choice but simply because you cannot handle them. matters of the heart have their good times and their bad times but whats worse is the thought of losing the good times and stepping in the bad times which leads to hopelessness. You went through it, the person next to you went through it because its part and puzzle of growing up and being mature.

My encouragement is simply Find love in yourself. I was at a wedding on saturday. At that wedding i started noticing that not only is love a choice but love is a miracle. Love is a miracle because not everyone finds that miracle. Remember when Jesus Christ spoke about the a woman who lost a coin and had to look for, she searched for it until she found it, love is like that. When one finds love they become content no matter the situation but as soon as you loose that love you lose that miracle that gave you joy, contentment, peace and liberty. 

You need to find love in yourself before you trust someone else with your heart. Matters of the heart are life changing and we need to pay close attention our hearts and give it to the right person so that it wont break. Today people are looking for love and some are waiting for love only to find that if they first love themselves and love their neighbours that love which they desire will find them even when they are not looking, love is a miracle and only the right kind of love can mend a broken heart and a right kind of love can bring peace to matters of the heart, you need that love the miraculous kind of love.

Find love in yourself, love your looks, love your curves, love your eyes, love who you are outside and embrace who you are inside and the love you deserve will find you.

My name is William 'Hlogi' Seitshiro and these are my words

(NB THE OF THE PERSON {JAMES} IS NOT THE REAL NAME OF THE PERSON)