Hlogi's Word's Understanding Relationships Today

As a writer, I have grown into this knowledge that relationships are very complex. Many other writers may hold the fact that relationships are a job description but from my stand point, they are another revelation of how beautiful life can be if you dedicate your life to living it with someone else. It is not a job because a job while working you can do something wrong and get fired, but it is an opportunity to explore a different life style from how you used to live to that best thing that another person can make of you.

A few days ago I was chatting with my girlfriend on Whatsapp and I told her about my current situation, she started encouraging me just so that I can learn how to be strong for both of us. Relationships are meant to build each other, and by building each other I actually mean in life. We build each other in our religious views, principals, and every aspect of our life’s where we feel we need help. At the moment where I needed my girlfriend that’s when she came in and motivated me. This is the purpose of this book, to remind people who we are and how relationships have transformed throughout the ages but we should remain true to ourselves and our partners about whom we are and where we are going.

Though this book will be expounding more and more about relationships and the changes that we have come across throughout the years, it will also be revealing the other important side of relationships which is love and sex. The reason why I chose to write about such sensitive issue was because I have realized that we are moving from the recognition of the importance of being in a relationship to a point of what we think we need. Love, Sex, Relationship is not about what men and women think about relationships but it is about how relationships should be.

The ultimate purpose of this book is to show people the way. In our generation we have lost the truth, we are invaded by the western traditions that we have forsaken the rules and principals of why, how, and when we should do things. We need a guider, someone to show us the way and tell us the truth, which is the purpose of this book.

My intention is to be as transparent as possible, in so saying, this is written for both male and female so that it may challenge both genders in knowing and exploring their partners more. Relationships are both good and bad, they have their ups and downs and my intentions are to let people know what to do. Many people have many questions and but a short number of people have answers.

Reaching out to people is my calling and that is the reason why people listen. Being a young pastor i have come to realize that people need help whether in love, sex and relationships. There are many people both married and unmarried who have no idea what is wrong with their relationship, to be more precise they don’t know what they need to do. 

Love, Sex, & Relationship

Whether we like it or not we need to face the fact that relationships are for both a man and a woman. What that means is that relationships are about two people not three or four or ten. When a man approached a woman he was clear about what he wants from the woman and what he is willing to do in order to get what he wants. Two people cannot meat and say that they want to start a relationship and other person like the mother or father have a say in their relationship, Though that is one of the methodologies that other cultures use in order to make sure that the relationship will end up in marriage, it is rather improper.

There are many other methodologies other cultures use like the western culture, which allows the couple to make their own decisions and grow with them because it is believed that they will then learn responsibility.

There is ladder that one has to climb because in order to be in a relationship. Psychologists may contend anyhow, yet I found this to be a truly working methodology that leads to a happy life, which is step one Love, step two Relationship, and step three Sex. I was once asked a serious question by a Christian friend who was bothered by my three step rule, “William, why does sex come before marriage” and my answer was simple, it doesn’t because relationship means either dating or married it does not mean dating only because the people who are married are in a relationship. Even so, in our generation we have people who do not believe what we believe and they have sex no matter what and you cannot blame (condemn) them.

I AM HLOGI AND THESE ARE MY WORDS