MEN AND WOMEN HAVE NEEDS

Man's needs are easy to be met, yet I encourage people always to find themselves in their husbands or boy friends dream. In most cases women support, love and have sex with their spouse's because they are willing but some do it because they have found themselves in spouse's dreams and visions.

What a man need every women can supply it. I have met different men who allways say the same thing women are the same and I always disagree, yet again I met ladies who thought men are the same, which I also disagreed.  Many people always assume that people are the same and they do not realize that when you assume that people are the same you are implying that their needs are the same.

Let's look into this. Women want a guy who can go with them to buy grocery but other women are too busy in the corporate world to get a man walk with them to buy grocery, instead they need a women who can give them good sex. Others do not want sex and to go to grocery store they only want intimacy, no matter how long the husband or boy friend stayed at work and how stre.ssed it was at work she want to cuddle and kiss. Every women needs a different thing in this day and age.

What about a man, though at some point I concur with Steve Harvey but depending on the career that a man is busy with it plays arounds their need sector.  Some might just need help in their career while other only need the wife to understand, some only need sex while other need their wives wherever they are and others need space.

Needs and wants in this day and age are very imperative because those needs and wants determine where the relationship is going or what priorities of the person are.

Steve Harvey contends "It really doesn't take much to make us happy. In fact, there are only three things that pretty much every man needs-support, love, and 'the cookie.' Three thing-that's it. And I'm here to tell you that yes, it's that simple. What we need never weaknes or waves-hardly ever gets more demanding or harder to achieve. In fact, I'd argue that it's easy for a woman to give her man support, love and sex because it's in her makeup-suport and love are things that women dole out innately and freely. You just call it something else: nurturing. And if you love a man enough to nurture him, then I'd argue you love him enough to be intimate with him. So those three things come natural to you. And this is all your man wants from you."

In all that we go through in life, I have found that most men are still typical, the only thing they need is sex. No other thing. I build my life to encourage women not to entertain men who only care about how they dress and how they look but they should invest their time on people who love them in heart and in ther most inner place which love and glowing positive character inside.

Steve Harvey makes it clear that in this day and age it is easy to actually please a man than it is a woman. The most powerful tool that a lady should know that a man needs these three things or he would feel like the lady is not making any effort to make the man happy, beside as men we go through a lot to make sure that women are happy and feel well taking care of, in th same way why can't women do the same thing.

It is imperative to have equal rights in the relationship and also for all the needs for a man and woman met within the relationship because that will make it easy for your relationship to grow.

My name is William 'Hlogi' Seitshiro and these are my Words.