LOVE, RESPECT THEN SEX () Act like a lady and think like a man

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I read a book a while ago and this man contends that as people we love to shy away from subjects that have sex in them. I am a young pastor and in my walk with Christ i met this family that treats me like one of their own family members. Since i have met this family, i started seeing and understanding that Christians always avoid the topic of sex. Might be sex in marriage/any type of relationships because they are afraid that young people would go and try to experience what they are talking about.

I believe that the church should exhausts the topic of sex because people should understand that sex is only good when we do it in the boundaries of marriage. I have grown to understand that if we do not teach people that are married that Love and Respect in a relationship is more important than sex, then people will understand that sex is just another blessing from God because sex was never meant to be the key thing  in a relationship but it was meant to be the cherry on top.

We need a to be a generation of no, Most especially women/ladies. In this generation it is easy for a guy to come in the picture sleep with a woman and after leave them like nothing ever happened. If only this generation life is more simple, you get a woman and get what you want and leave them, yet in the past you were forced to marry for you to get what you want. We are overwhelmed by a community of poverty because people are having sex and leaving women with children.

WHAT HAPPENED TO DIGNITY?
WHAT HAPPENED TO LOVE?
WHAT HAPPENED TO RESPECT AND SUBMISSION?
WHAT HAPPENED TO A NO SEX GENERATION UNTIL MARRIAGE?

In this day and age, people are divorcing because of lack of love and respect, they even got married because they had a child. We need to be a generation of change, we need to change the view that we are a generation of many children and no love and respect in the relationship to being a generation of a better future that is overwhelmed with love and respect.

My name is William 'Hlogi' Seitshiro and these are my words.

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