GIVE THE COOKIE WHEN HE GAVE YOU HIS NAME (<STEVE HARVEY>) ACT LIKE A LADY AND THINK LIKE A MAN

I have always hated these rules that people make regarding women's sexuality, how they should protect themselves from bad men. Now I know, I know that it makes sense to protect yourself as a woman. In this day and age good men are hard to find most especially in church, corporate world and among friends.

I have been reading a book by Steve Harvey 'act like a lady and think like a man' our of that I have learned that all men are bad with no doubthe presented his case and now he speaks about women closing the cookie. He speaks bout three ninety day rule. And I admire that but I still contend that women should hide their cookies until marriage, once you open up to a guy and give him the cookie then he might not marry you.

We need to understand that relationships in this day and age are complicated,  and if you give what is suppose to be hide then you stand a chance of not getting what you always wanted. In this day and age we (man and woman) always focus on making others happy than making themselves happy.

"Of course, you've got to use your ninety days wisely; a probationary period means nothing if you're not putting this guy through the paces. During that ninety-day period, you should be checking him out-does he come when he says he's going to come; does he call when he's going to be late; does he like and care about your friends and, if you have them, your children; does he express his joy at being in your presence? Most important, is this really a man with whom you can see yourself in a committed relationship? Or do you see signs that make you God-given intuition kick in?"

He continues...

"Give it abreast ninety days, and you can smoke all of that out of him, so that you can be sure that this guy is the right man for you. After all, it's your right to want what you want-and to actually get it."
  - Steve Harvey

It is hard to find a decent man or woman in this century simply because we try to make people happy by giving out the cookie than receving the ring. By decent I actually mean innocent, virgin, and who loves you for you. We cannot live lives like that, both men and women need to take the stand and protect themselves.

My name is William 'Hlogi' Seitshiro and these are my words...

Stay true to God, yourself and your family. Give the cookie when he gave you his name.