DO NOT BE HIS TROPHY OR HIS BED BUT BE HIS WIFE IN MARRIAGE NOT IN WORDS (Hlogi and Anonymous)

Miss Anonymous: Hi Hlogi, I dont know if you help out all people but I sent you an inbox because I want to know if he will marry me.

Hlogi: I am not a psychologist or a sexologist but I am a pastor and writer.

Miss Anonymous: I know but I saw you post where you helped out the lady who wanted to mary a black guy, I thought that you can help me.

Hlogi: ok tell me whats up!

Miss Anonymous: I have been dating a guy called themba at my church, we have been seeing each other for two years now and I love him. We always have sex and sometimes I feel like thats all that he wants I feel like he is using me. I really think that we are going to get married because he promised me, but it seems like we only have sex when we meet. I want to know, is he going to marry me?

Hlogi: When do you see him?

Anonymous: Weekends.

Hlogi: Does he tell you that he needs you nd he would love to hold and touch you whe  he calls?

Anonymous: Yes, most especially when we havent seen each other for a week.

Hlogi: eish, you have become like a trophy wife,  a trophy wife is a married woman who is beautiful and is only good enough to be shown  to friends, business colleagues and acquaintances.

You have becomes a distributor of goods, you becoming a trophy wife would be a very high position for you because when he sees you he sees sex. You have opened up to him too much because now your chances of him marrying you are very slim because you already gave him what he needs to cope through life.

You may find that he has someone else whom says no to him and he loves her and wants to marry her.

Anonymous: what should I do, I love him but I cant be with him if he sees sex when he looks at me.

Hlogi:
Oh man, I am so happy you said you cant be with him if he sees you as a sex object, I am excited that you are willing to take that step of faith and say you would leave him.

I have noticed that the reason why people do not marry is because they live lives that married people live.  They sleep together,  the lady washes his clothes and gives him a massage. They live like Hollywood's finests couple but they are not really married.

Women In  this day and age no matter how old they are, they are cheap. If I want a one night stand and have fun without strings attached some lady is there, if I want a sex budy I will find them. Woman are cheap, but what would happen if a lady who loves a guy and decides to say No!, no I won't be your sex buddy, no I won't give you my body because only my husband deserves it.

Lady anonymous and women arround the globe do not be cheap like cheap girls out there because if you want to be married then you have to says baby I love you but marry me first because as much as I want to have sex with you I wont because I am a woman who wants to be someone in the future not some cheap girl who people use as a bed to sleep on leave when the bed gets old.

If anyone is treated like the anonymous lady then I encourage you tell him no more sex, no more him getting his way with you.

If he gets angry or does not want to understand or if he beats you, then you know he only wants sex.

Leave him, yes you love him and his probably going to call and your life might be missirable for the next month or two but as time goes on some guy will approach you and hell marry you.

I encourage you ladies...

DO NOT BE HIS TROPHY OR HIS BED, BUT BE HIS WIFE IN MARRIAGE NOT IN WORDS.

My name is William 'Hlogi' Seitshiro and these are my words.