AT THE POINT OF SELFISHNESS BY HLOGI AND ANONYMOUS

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Miss Anonymous: Listen I have no where to go these holidays.

Hlogi: What happened to your house with your family.

Miss Anonymous: My Parents disowned me.

Hlogi: What happened,  what did you do for them to use such hurtful words.

Miss Anonymous: I'm with a black guy and planning on marrying him.

Hlogi:

Oh gosh...uhm ok. Listen go home, make peAce with your family then think about marriage. Deciding to marry with that kind of family issue is not a good idea.

1. Go home and love on your family.
2. Give them Time to digest that you want to marry.
3. Give them Time to digest that you are with a black guy.
4. Collect your thoughts and dont sell yourself cheap cause if you follow him, without your families blessing then you are not going to get far. Because there will be no family support.
5. Go back to them and say mom, dad, I love him and I am not leaving to marry him unless you bless us.
6. If they say no, give them abit more time.  And treat them like nothing happened until the right time comes.

Please I know your in love with him, if he loves you he will support you. Please take my advice for it is better for you not to marry than to marry without your family. Give your family time to think about you dating, and you dating him.

All ladies out there please do not sell yourself short to any guy and lose out on your family. Most marriages happen outside family blessings and they are not successful.  I want you ladies to grow, not to hate men but love them with  boundaries. Sometimes  you feel it as a woman that this guy only wants sex. So leave him.

Many ladies get married young because their boy friends cant hold themselves, they want to have sex and do that and that. Why should women give into what a man wants. Most people are pregnant today because they are selling themselves short to men.

Ladies let men chace after you, not you chase after them.

Ladies as soon as you close your legs and say no, as soon as you go back to your family and love them and respect them, love your friends and be selfish towards men then you are mature and marriage will knock at the door.

BUT FOR NOW, GO HOME MAKE PEACE WITH FAMILY AND FRIENDS. LIVE WITH THEM, LOVE AND RESPECT THEM, BE SELFISH WHEN HE ASKES FOR SEX MAKE SURE HE UNDERSTANDS THAT EVEN IF HE LEAVES ITS FINE BECAUSE THE RIGHT MAN WILL COME TO MARRY YOU.

THEN MARRIAGE WILL COME.

I want to encourage you, DO NOT SELL YOURSELF SHORT.

AT THE POINT OF YOUR SELFISHNESS MARRIAGE WILL COME!

My name is William 'Hlogi' Seitshiro and these are my words.

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